How To Go Down On Her

In this post, I really want to emphasise how important foreplay is. It’s extremely common for guys to not spend enough time on it, and some even miss out the foreplay completely, which is a big, big mistake. I believe it is actually the most important step when going down on a woman, and here is why.

Foreplay = Sexual Tension = More Intense Climax

If you don’t spend enough time on foreplay, then there is probably going to be no sexual tension. And when there is no sexual tension, she is going to be far less sensitive, which means she probably wont reach climax.

How To Perform Foreplay Effectively?

I know I’ve mentioned it already in the post at the top of my blog, but KISSING is your friend! Now I can’t speak for every woman, but you can bet your bottom dollar, that most women LOVE kissing. If done correctly, she will be very wet down below, and she will want you to give her more direct stimulation. There really is no proper way to kiss a girl, just relax and do what feels right. All I will say is try to slow it down, instead of slobbering all over her face! Gentle, firm and slow kisses on her lips and other sensitive areas will drive her crazy.

Another important part of foreplay is touching her in places which build up the sexual tension. Stroking the inside of the leg, touching her chest and even brushing her privates ever so slightly will work wonders for you. If you do this she will probably start to breathe heavier, and she may even move your hand on her privates. The moment she does this, is the moment you know you can take it a step further. If it gets to this stage, you can be very confident that any direct stimulation to the clitoris will be pleasurable to her.

I will be posting more tips in the near future, so stay updated! More tips on: how to go down on a woman

When going down on a woman, there are certain things you should know. If you’ve read my other posts you will know by now, that warming her up and getting her in the mood is crucial if you want to go down on her properly. However, one thing I haven’t really mentioned so far, is to look for signs that she WANTS you to go down on her. If you go down on a woman too quickly before she is sexually aroused, she will be FAR less sensitive down below. So below is a short list of signs to look for when she is horny:

1. Heavy Breathing – If she is sexually aroused she will breathe heavily, and depending on the girl, she may even moan too.

2. Wet Down Below – Using your fingers is a great way to see if she is wet down below. If she is, BINGO, if not more foreplay!

3. Grabs / Scratches You – When women are VERY horny, they may grab onto you and might even scratch you. Again, this depends on the woman! Some will, some wont.

4. Pushes Your Head Down – During foreplay, kiss her chest and tummy. If she wants you to go down on her, she will almost certainly push your head in the direction she wants it.

These are the 4 main signs to look for when going down on a woman. If you notice any of them, you can be almost certain that she wants you to go down on her. Just remember, if you spend long enough on foreplay, you will notice these signs! You can never spend too long teasing her, eventually she will crack and make it obvious she wants more!